My husband enjoys rubbing in the fact that he currently weighs less than me. Note that he is only 1 lb lighter. This morning is when he pulled away by that one pound. And it inspired him to say things like 'I'm smoking ya!'. I know mentally that he is just teasing; but teasing hurts emotionally and I don't know how to tell him such. If I ask him to stop he gets mad that I don't understand that he is just teasing. Its a very frustrating cycle.
You know what I just realized? It's the teasing that is causing me to feel like he doesn't respect me. I wonder if there is a way to let him know how much it hurts to be teased all the time without sounding like someone who just can't take a joke. I'm gonna have to do some web research on this because I'm sure that if I continue to feel lousy about myself I won't be able to continue my weight loss journey.
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